My Prayer;
"I am so lost.
To whom do I turn?
I was conceived through in vitro fertilisation, and feel so haunted.
My brothers? Sisters? who died at the time of my conception are so real to me.
I grieve for them; there is a part of my heart that is lost.
Who can understand what I am going through?
I am lost in a dark, deep wilderness, and feel as if I am struggling with absolutely no end in sight.
And the worst is, I am alone.
There is no one to whom I can really turn.
O God, please help me."
God's Answer;
"My dear child -
for that is what you are; a member of my dearly loved human family -
your brothers and sisters are safe with me.
I created a conception and birth process as my Master Plan for humanity,
and humanity has been somewhat creative with my initial intention.
Yet I, I alone, the God of All
Have the power to untie knots which others have tied and are impossible for humanity to unravel.
However it happens - whenever it happens - when a new life is created I have committed myself to creating a soul for that life.
So your brothers and sisters have souls, personalities.
They each have their own unique set of fingerprints, individual eye colour, individual path of life.
They came before their allotted time into My Kingdom.
You have survived on earth, and they have survived in Heaven.
For the joyous news is that every soul which does not grow to maturation on earth is taken unto Me, and cherished.
Mary, the Mother of My Son, helps me with this work.
So do my Angels, and others from my human family who are already with Me.
Why not have a naming ceremony for your siblings?
If three siblings went prematurely to Heaven during your conception process, name three siblings.
The naming of a child is a most profound spiritual moment.
So pray like this;
'Dear Heavenly Father,
I come before you today,
to claim and name my brothers and sisters whom I lost during our in vitro conception.
I name my first sibling Hannah, if she was a girl, and Thomas, if he was a boy.
I name my second sibling Sarah, if she was a girl, and Peter, if he was a boy.
I name my third sibling Anne, if she was a girl, and Paul, if he was a boy.
(Dear child, these are of course examples.
Use the names you wish to honour your siblings who are with Me).
I offer for them the Baptism of Desire.
Please care for them, and may Mary, the Queen of Unborn cherish my siblings and keep them safe with her until I am re-united with them one day again in Heaven.
Amen.'
I know of my human sons and daughters who have lost siblings in miscarriage, and who, when asked how many are in their family, state for example seven - six on earth, one in heaven.
So you, too, have the joy of knowing you will one day be reunited with your siblings in Heaven.
This I promise you.
Light candles in remembrance of your siblings.
Remember your siblings when you are at Mass and at prayer.
And pray to them for assistance - they are deeply aware of your distress that they cannot be with you in the earthly realm, but be assured of this - they watch over you from the heavenly realm.
And, as much as you love them, they dearly love you.
And so, dear child - be at peace.
My Son clearly foresaw this burden you carry when He spoke, saying;
'Come unto me, all you who are weary, and are heavy burdened;
And I will give you rest.'
Give unto my Son and Myself this burden, this worry you are carrying.
And be at rest, be at peace that all will be well.
I love you, dear child.
And your siblings.
Have courage, and believe in Me.
I will always be with you."
