CHRISTIAN VALUES AND SEX EDUCATION

CHRISTIAN VALUES AND SEX EDUCATION
  The documents 'Sex Education; The Vatican's Guidelines', [1]and 'The Truth and Meaning of Human Sexuality, Guidelines for Education within the Family' [issued by the Pontifical Council on the Family] are invaluable resources in this regard. [2]

  It is imperative that each individual receive balanced and informative sex education.
  Youth face critical moral and spiritual issues today, and need to be equipped to make sensible and value-based choices.

What is Value Based Education?
  Value Based Education [or VbE] is education based on positive and profound values which inspire youth and adults to live positive human values.
  Gospel Value Based Education is followed in households that faithfully follow the values directed by Almighty GOD and His Son, Jesus Christ.

Church Tradition
  Church tradition is that sex education should not primarily be a matter of giving explicit information; it should be a matter of inculcating modesty, dignity and decency of heart.

Exclusive relationship
  Married love in an exclusive relationship has dignity; and is fruitful in nature.
  The Creator God sends another being to this world through the creative act of love between the married couple.
  It is important to realise that physical love between two people is not a matter of physicals without deeper meaning.
  In its truest sense, physical affection between husband and wife reflects that greatest of wealth; true love.

Concerns re sexual education
  Concerns re various sexual education programmes are experienced by many who believe in the values of decency, modesty, faithfulness in relationship and protection of new life.
  It is a challenge to give sex education that combines not only the practical reproductive information necessary, but also dependable guidance based on godly values.
  Pastors and priests deal with the reality of lives broken through issues relating to sexuality.

Character development
  It is a fact that sexuality is intricately interwoven with character. Personal character of an individual may with almost certainty reflect in that person's behaviour patterns of sexuality.
  So sex education according to gospel value based education is not merely a matter of imparting reproductive functional information.
  It also involves the task of assisting the youth to develop a godly character; one that will use the power of sexuality - which can be used to great good or in a destructive manner - with responsibility and accountability.

Church tradition 
  Church tradition is that sexuality has been part of God's Plan from the beginning and thus it is very good.
  Sexuality is inextricably related to love and life and to lifelong self-giving.
  Owing to sin, sexuality can be wilfully and grossly misused, and for this reason every human person is called to purity and chastity no matter what his or her state of life.
  Every person knows by experience that chastity - or sexual responsibility - requires rejecting certain thoughts, words and sinful actions.
  This development of character in a non-repressive and non-anxious way is a sound basis for a happy and balanced sexuality.

Good pastoral sense 
  It makes good pastoral sense to assist those who work with youth to teach the facts of life in a balanced and gospel-value based way.
  The aforementioned documents 'Sex Education; The Vatican's Guidelines' and 'The Truth and Meaning of Human Sexuality; Guidelines for Education within the Family' form excellent resources to draw on when giving guidance in this area.

Dangers
  Many dangers are faced by youth today in the form of contraceptives and abortifacients.
  These aids are often made known in various sex education programs.
  It is essential for the gospel value based educator to have sound knowledge to impart on the issue of family planning, and to educate the youth in methods that are gospel value based.

  One issue of concern is that discussed by Good Shepherd Church in June 15th 2015 blog post; Intra Uterine Devices - are they suitable for our Teenage Girls?
  Full information is available at link [3] below.
 
Other issues of concern re sex education program, Depo Provera and the Emergency Contraceptive Pill [ECP's] are discussed in Lumiere Charity August 28th 2015 blog post; see link [4] below. 

  Evidence based information is invaluable for pastors, educators and parents when discussing the spacing of births within a family according to gospel value based methods.
  Natural family planning [or the Billings Ovulation Method]  [5] and the Lady Comp method  [6] are two forms of natural family planning which have been used by many with success.

Series of gospel-value education 
  Good Shepherd Church will be running a series of blog posts on Sex Education based on gospel values.

Rev Catherine

[1] Sex Education; The Vatican's Guidelines
http://www.catholiceducation.org/en/marriage-and-family/sexuality/sex-education-the-vatican-s-guidelines.html

[2] The Pontifical Council for the Family; 'The Truth and Meaning of Human Sexuality; Guidelines for Education Within the Family'
http://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/pontifical_councils/family/documents/rc_pc_family_doc_08121995_human-sexuality_en.html
 
[3] Intra -Uterine Devices; are they Suitable for our Teenage Girls?
http://churchinterfaith.blogspot.ie/2015/06/intra-uterine-devices-are-they-suitable.html

[4]
http://lumierecharity.blogspot.ie/2015/08/lenten-alms-given-to-catholic-relief.html

[5] Natural Family Planning or the Billings Ovulation Method
http://billings.life/en/

[6] Natural Choice [Lady Comp Method]
https://www.lady-comp.co.uk/method/



With thanks to catholiceducation. org, Vatican.va, billings.life and lady-comp.co.uk
 

THE GREAT PROMISE OF THE SACRED HEART OF JESUS

JESUS MADE THE FOLLOWING PROMISES FOR THOSE WHO HONOR HIM AS THE SON OF GOD;

1. I will give them all of the graces that are necessary for their state in life
2. I will help all families that are in difficulty and I will bring peace to families that are divided
3. I will console them in their afflictions
4. I will be their safe refuge in life and especially at the hour of their death
5. I will shower their work with abundant blessings
6. Sinners will find a source and an ocean of Mercy in My Heart
7. I will bring religious communities and individual faithful people back to their initial fervour
8. Fervent souls will reach great perfection in a short time
9. I will bless the places where the image of My Sacred Heart is exposed and honoured
10. To all of those who work for the salvation of souls I will give the gift of moving even the most hardened hearts
11. The name of those who propagate devotion to My Sacred Heart will be written in My Heart and it will never be cancelled out
[Jesus' great Love for us is often depicted with a heart with flames [on fire with love for us] - and is known as the 'Sacred Heart of Jesus'.

Lastly, the Great Promise;
"I promise you, in the excess of Mercy of My Heart, that My Omnipotent Love will give all those who receive Holy Communion on the First Friday of the Month for nine consecutive months, the grace of final penance. 
  They will not die in a state of disgrace, or without receiving the Sacraments, and My Heart will be their safe refuge during that last hour."

How to do the Nine First Fridays;
1. Make confession to God of your sins, and repent them
2. Attend the Holy Eucharist and receive Communion on the First Friday of each month. Do this for nine months.

What does Confession require?
First, when we confess to God, we need to reflect. What have we done that is sinful, that requires change?
We then turn to God and confess where we have gone wrong.
We need to realize that we must change our way of life.
  We make a firm decision to change our life with God's help.

Now choose to do only that which is right.
If it is in any way possible, let us resolve to make amends in the situation we caused.
  Sometimes, unfortunately, this is not possible.
In that case, let us put the situation into the gentle Hands of Jesus and ask Him to intercede in whatever way possible.
Then be at peace.

We are all on a journey; we are all prone to sinfulness.
  We all make mistakes on our way.
Yet, let us do everything we can to live as faithful followers of Jesus Christ.
  This means following the Commandments, and following the precepts of life Jesus Christ taught in the Gospels.

Why pray the Nine First Fridays devotion?
There is good sense behind the practice. A regular and devoted prayer life stands us in good stead, and strengthens our morality, sense of values and character.
  This helps us to be strong when faced with situations that may tempt us to do wrong, instead of that which is right.

Hurt by Abortion? If regret over an abortion is part of your life, you are not alone. There is care. There is Help. RACHEL'S VINEYARD

HURT BY ABORTION? If regret over an abortion is part of your life, you are not alone. There is care. There is help.      
  Rachel's Vineyard is a Healing place for anyone hurt by abortion.

Whether the pregnancy loss is your own, or that of a friend or family member, why not call Rachel's Vineyard?
  Rachel's Vineyard weekend retreats are a beautiful opportunity for anyone who has struggled with the emotional or spiritual pain of an abortion.
  The retreat is a very specific process designed to help you experience the mercy and compassion of God.
  There are many testimonies of those who have suffered inner torment after an abortion.
  Rachel's Vineyard has proved a blessing to them.
Retreats are held several times a year throughout Ireland.
See information and contact details at http://www.rachelsvineyard.ie/
And
http://www.rachelsvineyard.org/

With thanks to rachelsvinyard.ie and rachelvineyard.org

Children

Children are to be cherished and protected -

theirs is the birthright of Heaven.

 

Jesus invites little children to come unto Him,

and teaches us how to gain eternal life

http://www.mormonchannel.org/watch/series/bible-videos/suffer-the-little-children-to-come-unto-me

 

Jesus teaches that we must become like little children

http://www.mormonchannel.org/watch/series/bible-videos/jesus-teaches-that-we-must-become-as-little-children

 

With thanks to mormonchannel.org

 

 

 

Forgiveness

Forgive especially when suffering from the unforgivable.

Otherwise you will never be able to move forward in your life 

away from the past pain of the situation.

 

Jesus counselled us to forgive others.

It is only when we forgive that we let go.

 

Matthew 18;22

Jesus explains how we are to treat our offending brethren

 http://www.mormonchannel.org/watch/series/bible-videos/forgive-70-times-7

 

Jesus teaches us to forgive others, as we are forgiven by God

in the 'Lord's Prayer' - the Our Father

http://www.mormonchannel.org/watch/series/bible-videos/sermon-on-the-mount-the-lords-prayer

 

The Our Father

Our Father, Who art in heaven
Hallowed be Thy Name;
Thy kingdom come,
Thy will be done,
on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
and forgive us our trespasses,
as we forgive those who trespass against us;
and lead us not into temptation,
but deliver us from evil. Amen.

 

With thanks to mormonchannel.org

 

Jesus has the Power

THE MESS THAT HUMANITY LANDED IN AS A RESULT OF THE TURNAWAY FROM GOD LED TO MANY THINGS.

Broken relationships, hatred, injustice and much more.

And yet; my sisters and brothers,

Jesus has the Power to mend not only the breach

between God and humanity

but also all the results of the Fall.

Trust in Him.

He is the Rock of Ages Who will never fall.

Hymn; Rock of Ages

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=avOLfsUkQ_4

With thanks to youtube

Don't weep

Don't weep, said Jesus.

For more can be mended

than you can ever know.

The reason for priests

The Great High Priest - Jesus Christ

Priests are there to help make the unbearable bearable.

We have been missioned to help people in

their times of trouble and distress.

As Christ ministered,

so we are called to minister.

Let us never forget that

'priests are to be another Christ'

Faith will reign

The symbol of Christianity -

where once there was nothing but barren dryness,

now raging torrents of faith will reign.

Be the one

Anyone can find the dirt in someone.

Like Him, be the one that finds the gold.

GOOD SHEPHERD CHURCH IS AT ALL NIGHT PRAYER VIGIL IN PRAYER AND REPARATION; WHY NOT JOIN US?

GOOD SHEPHERD CHURCH IS HOLDING AN ALL NIGHT VIGIL OF PRAYER AND REPARATION IN OPPOSITION TO THE GREATER 'CHURCH' OF LUCIFER OPENING IN TEXAS SCHEDULED FOR OCTOBER 30TH, ALLEGED NEWS.
  The Holy Sacrifice of the Eucharist and the Prayer of the Most Holy Rosary of Our Blessed Lady will be held later during the Vigil.
  For those who wish to join in prayer, here is the link to communal recitation of the Rosary;
http://www.comepraytherosary.org/

To join in the Celebration of the Eucharist;
Intention; to ask Almighty God to overshadow the events planned for the opening of worship to lucifer, and to bring his plans - as always - to nought;

ORDER OF SERVICE FOR PRAYER AND REPARATION BEFORE THE ALMIGHTY THRONE OF GOD 
Service with Eucharist Good Shepherd Church 

The Gathering of God's People
Priest; The Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.
People; And also with you.

Hymn; Praise my soul, the King of Heaven

1. Praise, my soul, the King of Heaven;
To His feet thy tribute bring.
Ransomed, healed, restored, forgiven,
Evermore His praises sing:
Praise Him, praise Him, alleluia!
Praise the everlasting King.

2. Praise Him for His grace and favor
To our fathers in distress;
Praise Him still the same as ever,
Slow to chide, and swift to bless.
Praise Him, praise Him, alleluia!
Glorious in His faithfulness.

3. Fatherlike He tends and spares us,
Well our feeble frame He knows;
In His hands He gently bears us,
Rescues us from all our foes.
Praise Him, praise Him, alleluia!
Widely yet His mercy flows.

4. Angels, help us to adore Him,
Ye behold Him face to face;
Sun and moon, bow down before Him;
Dwellers all in time and space,
Praise Him, praise Him, alleluia!
Praise with us the God of grace.    

Priest; 
Almighty God, to Whom all hearts are open, all desires known, and from Whom no secrets are hidden; Cleanse the thoughts of our hearts by the inspiration of Your Holy Spirit, that we may perfectly love you, and worthily magnify Your Holy Name; through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Lord God, You raise Your Son
from the dead.
Lord, have mercy.

People; Lord, have mercy.

Priest; Lord Jesus, we are given the 
promise of eternal life.
Christ, have mercy.

People; Christ, have mercy.

Priest; Holy Spirit, You help us in our weakness.
Lord, have mercy.

People; Lord, have mercy.

Priest; Almighty God, Who forgives all who truly repent, 
Have mercy on you, pardon and deliver you from all 
your sins, confirm and strengthen you in all goodness, and 
keep you in eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord.

People; Amen.

The Gloria
Glory to God in the highest,
and peace to God's people on earth;.
Lord God, heavenly King,
Almighty God and Father,
We worship You, we give You thanks,
We praise You for Your Glory.
Lord Jesus Christ, only Son of the Father,
Lord God, Lamb of God,
You take away the sin of the world:
Have mercy on us.
You are seated at the Right Hand of the Father,
Receive our prayer.
For You alone are the Holy One,
You alone are the Lord,
You alone are the Most High,
Jesus Christ, with the Holy Spirit,
in the Glory of God the Father. Amen.

Priest; [Prayer]
Almighty and Everlasting God, Ruler of the Universe and all within, we ask You to place Your Hand in blessing on our worship of prayer and reparation.
  May the plans of the fallen one be frustrated, we humbly pray; and may we - Your children - unite in Your Service to raise worship and praise to One only - to You, the Ruler over all.

People; Amen.
Priest; The Reading is from 1 Chronicles, Chapter 29, verses 10-13.
People; Glory to you, Lord Jesus Christ.


Reader;
¹⁰ David praised the Lord in the presence of the whole assembly, saying,

“Praise be to you, Lord,
    the God of our father Israel,
    from everlasting to everlasting.
¹¹ Yours, Lord, is the greatness and the power
    and the glory and the majesty and the splendor,
    for everything in heaven and earth is Yours.
Yours, Lord, is the kingdom;
    You are exalted as Head over all.
¹² Wealth and honor come from You;
    You are the Ruler of all things.
In Your Hands are strength and power
    to exalt and give strength to all.
¹³ Now, our God, we give You thanks,
    and praise Your Glorious Name

 

People; Praise to You, Lord Jesus Christ
Words of Comfort;
God the Ruler of Ages past, has all within His Hands.
Let us trust Him to hear us in this hour and with this concern.
Let us come before the God of all in prayer and reparation, asking Him to send the ever-great Archangel Michael, the Archangels, and all the Heavenly Host to frustrate the plans of the fallen one.
We humbly kneel before God and pray that He - Who sees all - will bring this plan to nought.
We ask the Blessed Mary, ever Virgin, Who the Scriptures promise will vanquish the fallen one, to come to our aid in this matter.
We further ask the Saints to assist us with this concern.
Fortified with courage and trust, we know our prayer will be heard.

Prayer
Priest; The Lord is here
People; His Spirit is with us
Priest; Lift up your hearts
People; We lift them up unto the Lord.
Priest; Let us give thanks to the Lord our God
People; It is right to give Him our thanks and praise.
Priest; Father, Lord of Life,
We bring before you our concerns and need; hear our prayer, we beg You; and come to our aid. Amen.

The Breaking of Bread
'As they were eating, Jesus took bread [here the priest takes the bread]'And blessed and broke it'  [the priest breaks the bread] 'And He gave it to His disciples and said, 'Take this, all of you, and eat; This is My Body.'
People; Lord Jesus, we bless You:
You are the Bread of Life.

The Blessing of the Wine
'At the end of supper, Jesus took the cup of wine [here the priest takes up the cup] 'Gave thanks, and said; Drink this, all of you: This is my Blood of the New Covenant, Which is shed for you and for many for the forgiveness of sins: do this in remembrance of Me.'
People; Lord Jesus, we bless You:
You are the true vine.
Priest; Praise to you, Lord Jesus Christ.
People; Dying, you destroyed our death,
rising, You restored our life:
Lord Jesus, come in glory.

All now recite The Lord's Prayer [ translated from the original Aramaic];
'Our Father, Who is in Heaven,
sanctified be Your Name.
May Your Kingdom come,
may Your Will be done,
just as It is in Heaven, so also upon the earth.
Our bread which is from the earth, 
give us day by day.
Forgive us our sins,
just as we should forgive our debtors,
and do not bring us to trial
rather deliver us from the evil one.'

All take part of the Eucharist. This is the Table of the Lord, so all are welcome.
After Communion, rest in peace and prayer for a while.
Let the Lord give you His message, peace and forgiveness for today.
Prayer for all needs.
Almighty God, we pray for this concern, that You will intercede and bring the plans of the fallen one to nought.
Amen.
[Here add your own petitions at this Online Service of Eucharist in Praise of God the Ruler of All]
Prayer for Peace
Priest; Christ is our Saviour.
Through His Life, Death and Resurrection He saved us from the reign of the fallen one.
Let us turn to Him in faith and hope with this matter, knowing that we will never be left alone.
Go now to love and serve God in the world; raising your hope to God with trust and confidence.
Response; Amen.
Hymn;
Immaculate Mary
[The Lourdes Hymn]

Immaculate Mary, your praises we sing.
You reign now in Heaven with Jesus our King.

Ave, Ave, Ave, Maria! Ave, Ave, Ave, Maria!

In Heaven the blessed your glory proclaim;
On earth we your children invoke your sweet name.

Ave, Ave, Ave, Maria! Ave, Ave, Ave, Maria!

We pray for our Mother, the Church upon earth,
And bless, Holy Mary, the land of our birth.

Ave, Ave, Ave, Maria! Ave, Ave, Ave, Maria!


PEACE!

Prayer to the Immaculate Heart of Mary
O Most Blessed Mother, heart of love, heart of mercy, ever listening, ever caring, consoling, hear our prayer. As your children, we implore your intercession with Jesus Your Son.
Receive with understanding and compassion the petitions we place before you today, especially the concern with which we come before you in prayer and reparation.
[Here also place your special intentions].
We are comforted in knowing your heart is ever open to those who ask for your prayers.
We trust to your gentle care and intercession, those whom we love and who are sick and lonely or hurting.
Help all of us, Holy Mother, to bear our burdens in his life until we may share eternal life and peace with God forever. Amen.

Hymns; Praise my soul the King of Heaven
http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=Traditional%20PraiseMY%20SOUL%20THE%20KING%20OF%20HEAVEN%20&qs=n&form=QBVR&pq=traditional%20praisemy%20soul%20the%20king%20of%20heaven%20&sc=0-22&sp=-1&sk=#view=detail&mid=29F52B12E0282D66491129F52B12E0282D664911

Hymn; Immaculate Mary
http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=youtube+immaculate+mary+&FORM=VIRE5#view=detail&mid=E7A79892B8C0514159FDE7A79892B8C0514159FD

With thanks to comepraytherosary.org and bing.com.


 

BREAKING NEWS; GREATER 'CHURCH' OF LUCIFER OPENING IN SPRING, TEXAS ON OCTOBER 30th 2015, ALLEGED NEWS

Son of God Jesus Christ - To Him alone be Praise and Glory forever

OPPOSITION IS GROWING TO THE GREATER 'CHURCH' OF LUCIFER OPENING IN TEXAS SCHEDULED FOR FRIDAY OCTOBER 30TH 2015, ALLEGED NEWS.
Concerned families from the city of Spring, TX, are alarmed at the greater 'church' of lucifer opening in their town on 30th October 2015, Alleged News.
Prayer vigils and peaceful protests are in the works by locals and the national group TFP-America Needs Fatima, Alleged News.

WHY NOT JOIN THE PUBLIC ROSARY RALLY OF REPARATION AND PROTEST?
WHAT? PUBLIC ROSARY OF REPARATION AND PROTEST
WHEN? FRIDAY, OCTOBER 30th; from 5pm to 6.30pm
WHERE? 310 MAIN STREET, OLD TOWN SPRING, TEXAS 77373
BRING; ROSARIES, BIBLES, HOLY WATER, SCAPULARS, ST BENEDICT MEDALS


AND
OCTOBER 31st 2015, SATURDAY, MAIN STREET AT 3pm

WHY NOT SIGN THE PETITION?

Join the National Opposition to the opening of a 'church' to lucifer

http://www.tfp.org/act/petition/join-the-national-opposition-to-the-opening-of-a-church-of-lucifer?utm_source=sm-tfp&utm_medium=email&utm_content=TFP151028&utm_campaign=tfp_newsletter 

See details in Opposition grows to "greater" church of lucifer opening in Texas, Alleged News
http://christiannewswire.com/news/6769676902.html
and
Opposition grows to "church" of lucifer opening in Texas, Alleged News
http://www.tfp.org/current-campaigns/anti-blasphemy/opposition-grows-to-greater-church-of-lucifer-opening-in-texas.html

With thanks to tfp.org and christiannewswire.com

We form one Flock

All belong to one of the diverse flocks

that form the One Fold;

and Jesus Christ is our Shepherd.

 

John Chapter 10; 1-18

https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John+10&version=NIV

The Good Shepherd and Other Sheep I Have
http://www.mormonchannel.org/watch/series/bible-videos/the-good-shepherd-and-other-sheep-i-have

 With thanks to biblegateway.com and mormonchannel.org

Change of Plan; the Luminous Jesus Christ

Wedding at Cana

God moved the timing of the Divine Plan forward

to accommodate His Beloved Mother.

The luminous Jesus Christ began His Ministry

before the appointed time because

of the plea of His Mother and the

compassion He felt for embarrassed

newly wed friends.

 

Ministered before the appointed time -

died before the appointed time -

resurrected before the appointed time.

God's Plans ever change in the face of our need.

Let us never doubt the depth of His Love for us . . .

Rev Catherine

Jesus turns water into wine during the Wedding at Cana
http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=mormon+bible+videos+wedding+at+cana&FORM=VIRE1#view=detail&mid=DD85A8833BF91AA26E7FDD85A8833BF91AA26E7F

With thanks to Mormon Bible Videos 

GOOD SHEPHERD CHURCH IS ON THIRD DAY OF FAST AND PRAYER FOR INTENTION OF FRIDAY VOTE ON BILL TO DE-FUND PLANNED PARENTHOOD. WHY NOT JOIN US?

GOOD SHEPHERD CHURCH IS ON THIRD DAY OF FASTING AND PRAYER FOR THE INTENTION OF FRIDAY OCTOBER 23RD 2015 VOTE TO DE-FUND PLANNED PARENTHOOD USING RECONCILIATION TO STOP FILIBUSTER. WHY NOT JOIN US?

Prayer;
'Almighty and Most Revered God,
  You see before you rivers of blood from tortured and massacred innocents within the womb.
  Each infant cries out to you for justice and for rescue.
We humbly offer our fast and prayer that you may bring about miraculous change in the tide of events on our earth.
  We pray

• that You will enlighten those in positions of authority to support and protect the sanctity of life of the unborn babe
• that You will strengthen and uplift the hearts and courage of all those who work for the saving of the infants of this world
• that You will bring about miraculous change in the laws regarding abortion throughout the world.

  We make this prayer CONFIDENT IN YOUR POWER that all will occur according to Your Holy Might and Your Plan;

that all may be loved and cherished, as Your Beloved Son taught us.

  Let us thus 'love one another as Jesus has loved us' and particularly protect the unborn child from the horrendous death by abortion meted out to so many.

  We pray too, dear LORD our GOD, that all the unborn infants who have died over the millenia by abortion may join their voices from Heaven with ours; that the right to life of the unborn baby within the womb be held sacred.

  We ask this prayer in the Presence of - and asking the Intercession of - Your Divine Son, Our Holy Mother Mary, and all the Angels and Saints, 

Amen.'

Reverend Catherine 

House will vote Friday on Bill to De-Fund Planned Parenthood Using Reconciliation to Stop Filibuster, Alleged News 

http://www.lifenews.com/2015/10/20/house-will-vote-friday-on-bill-to-de-fund-planned-parenthood-using-nuclear-option-to-stop-filibuster/  

John 13:34 - 35 - "A new commandment I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are My disciples, if you love one another."

With thanks to lifenews.com and St John the disciple of Jesus

PRAYER CHAPEL FOR FATHERS WHO REGRET THEIR ABORTION OR ABORTIONS; WORDS OF COMFORT

PRAYER CHAPEL
Dear Lord, I am here in this Chapel today because - quite simply - I am struggling.
  My child was aborted, and I am struggling in so many ways.
Flashbacks. I have lost my child, and fear my heart has been changed because of this.
  I cannot turn time back and change the reality of what happened.
I have so much pain and regret within me; so many unshed tears for my little one.
Please help me.

GOD'S ANSWER TO YOU
My dear Son,
Just come into my arms and be at peace. I am your Heavenly Father, and I know all about you.
  I have your little baby [babies] safely here in Heaven with me.
I have already forgiven you. What is also important is that your little one has also forgiven you.
Indeed, your little child reaches out with love for you.
  Shed the tears you have not been able to show the world in the privacy of My Arms. Your little one is safe with me, and you will meet again when you come to heaven.
  Why not name your little baby [babies?]
Your baby naming ceremony and baptism of desire for your little one will be a great comfort for you, and for them.
  They are safely with me in Heaven, and can both see and hear you.
  They are happy to know that you have been healed in heart and remember them with love.
  Be reassured, I will keep your baby safe for you until you come to Heaven.
  You will be reunited there.
Remember, you are now a father. Your little one will have great joy in Heaven calling you that lovely name. Be at peace.

  Now let us make plans for the future together.
Look for good help, for one of my Trustworthy Shepherds, a priest or counsellor  - be discerning in your choice - to help you confidentially through your struggles, nightmares and flashbacks.
  Pain upon looking back at past sorrows can do one of two things; firstly, it can strengthen you in your new life.
  Or - left unchecked - it can cripple you with depression.
  My Son came to show that every day is a new day. If you deem any fault has been yours, lay it down before Me. I have forgiven you. Now forgive yourself, my beloved son.

TO HELP YOU
In order to help you, My dearest son, here is a Mass where My Divine Grace is called down.
  During this Holy Service, You and I - together, in this quiet and confidential place; Father and child; - will remember your little one whom I carry safe within My Arms.
  We will affirm, cherish and bless him/her/them.

NAME YOUR BABY
For this ceremony you can make a little altar, if you wish.
  You can do this with a little table, or on the floor if you do not have a table.
  If you have a cloth or piece of material, place it on the table or floor.
  Light a candle if you have one; otherwise just light the love in your heart.
Bless some water by dipping your fingers in the water and asking Me to bless the water with My grace. Or use holy water you have received from church.
  If you have [and if you wish] place some flowers in a vase or cup on your altar.
  If you wish, draw a card with your baby [babies'] new names on it.
Or buy a card with your baby's names.
  Together we will affirm the life and beauty of your unborn baby.
So my dear son; let's get started.
  Pray like this;
  'My beloved baby, I bless you with this water [make a blessing sign or just shake some holy water].
  I remember you with love; may you be happy in your new life with God.
[Here touch the petals of the flowers, offering them in celebration of the beauty of your little one].
  As your loving father, I fulfil my privilege of naming you. I name you [here recite your chosen names for your little one ].
If you wish, play some lovely music in celebration of your little baby.
  Then you can add,
'I place you [Name of your baby] under the protection of Father God, Blessed Mary, and Joseph the Protector of Jesus.
[Name of your baby] I look forward to the day when we will be reunited.
  I love you, my little son[s]/daughter[s] with all my heart.
Never forget that your father loves you, and looks forward to holding you in his arms one day in Heaven.
  Peace be with you, my little one; and please pray for me, your father.
Amen.'

Now that the naming ceremony is over, my son; pray to me in your own words.
  Pray for the grace of healing of past memories
  Ask Mary, the Beloved Mother of My Son, to pray for you. Her Immaculate Heart draws many favours from the Love of Mine.

If you wish, you can honor your baby by placing a plaque with your baby's name on a Memorial Wall. 
You can keep a plaque as a remembrance of your beloved child. 
Link to 'Lifting the Burden - The Memorial Wall' is at the end of the Prayer Chapel.

Also, if you wish, make a baby naming certificate for your little one. 
There is also a link at the end of the Chapel. 
You can have your baby's name inscribed in the 'BOOK OF LIFE' at The Church of the Holy Innocents.
 A candle lights in perpetuity in memory of your baby/babies at this Church. 
On the first Monday of every month, the Church's 12:15pm Mass is celebrated in honor of your child/children and for the comfort of your family. 
There is also a link at the end of the Chapel 'The Shrine of the Holy Innocents'. 

Also, if you wish, you can make an album in memory of your baby.
Place in it your baby naming certificate; and a photo of your baby's remembrance plaque. 
Press a flower from your bouquet today at your baby's naming ceremony. 
When the flower is dry, place it in your album.
Also place a picture of My Son, who understands the heart of a sorrowful father better than anyone else can.
And dedicate your baby into My Beloved Son, Jesus' care...'
  Ask Mary, the Beloved Mother of My Son, to pray for you. Her Immaculate Heart draws many favours from the Love of Mine.

ORDER OF SERVICE FOR FATHERS NEEDING COMFORT
Service with Eucharist
Hymn
I Need Thee Every Hour

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uIRJNgNSqok

The Gathering of God's People
 Priest; The Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.
People; And also with you.

Priest;
Almighty God, to Whom all hearts are open, all desires known, and from Whom no secrets are hidden; Cleanse the thoughts of our hearts by the inspiration of Your Holy Spirit, that we may perfectly love you, and worthily magnify Your Holy Name; through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Lord God, You raise Your Son
from the dead.
Lord, have mercy.

People; Lord, have mercy.

Priest; Lord Jesus, we are given the
promise of eternal life.
Christ, have mercy.

People; Christ, have mercy.

Priest; Holy Spirit, You help us in our weakness.
Lord, have mercy.

People; Lord, have mercy.

Priest; Almighty God, Who forgives all who truly repent,
Have mercy on you, pardon and deliver you from all
your sins, confirm and strengthen you in all goodness, and
keep you in eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord.

People; Amen.


The Gloria
Glory to God in the highest,
and peace to God's people on earth;.
Lord God, heavenly King,
Almighty God and Father,
We worship You, we give You thanks,
We praise You for Your Glory.
Lord Jesus Christ, only Son of the Father,
Lord God, Lamb of God,
You take away the sin of the world:
Have mercy on us.
You are seated at the Right Hand of the Father,
Receive our prayer.
For You alone are the Holy One,
You alone are the Lord,
You alone are the Most High,
Jesus Christ, with the Holy Spirit,
in the Glory of God the Father. Amen.

Priest; [Prayer]
Almighty and Everlasting God, by Whose Holy Spirit the Whole Body of the Church is ruled and made holy;
Hear our prayer which we offer for all.
We come before You asking Your Divine Forgiveness, and for Healing of Past Memories,
through our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.

People; Amen.
Priest; The Reading is from Psalm 51, verse 10
People; Glory to you, Lord Jesus Christ.
Reader; 'Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.'

People; Praise to You, Lord Jesus Christ
Words of Comfort;
'Jesus knew that various of our actions would bring grief in their trail, and in His infinite Wisdom and Goodness provided for this.
He it is Who has called us to take Refuge in Him when the burden of our hearts threaten to weaken us. 'Come unto Me, you who are heavy burdened, and I will give you rest' the great Son of God promised.
Today you come before the Lord of compassion, healing and the Lifter of heavy burdens.
Come before this altar and leave your heavy burden of past memories and decisions behind at His Feet.
Know that I have your little one safe within My Arms.
Rest safe knowing that I will make all right.
Remember that with God, nothing is impossible.Therefore let us rest our weary heads and sad hearts before the Lord. Be comforted that the God of Love cherishes and comforts you.
He has forgiven you; now be gentle with yourself, and forgive yourself.

Priest; The Lord is here
People; His Spirit is with us
Priest; Lift up your hearts
People; We lift them up to the Lord.
Priest; Let us give thanks to the Lord our God
People; It is right to give our thanks and praise.
Priest; Father, Lord of Life,
Comfort all who come before you today.
Bless your suffering servant, and unite in love this father with his little one who has gone before.
Help this father in need of healing, to recover from past memories,Amen.

Eucharist
'As they were eating, Jesus took bread [here the priest takes the bread] 'And blessed and broke it'  [the priest breaks the bread] 'And He gave it to His disciples and said, 'Take this, all of you, and eat; This is My Body.'
People; Lord Jesus, we bless You:
You are the Bread of Life.

'At the end of supper, Jesus took the cup of wine' [here the priest takes up the cup] 'Gave thanks, and said; Drink this, all of you: This is my Blood, the Blood of the New Covenant Which is shed for you and for many for the forgiveness of sins. Do this in remembrance of Me.'
People; Lord Jesus, we bless You:
You are the true vine.
Priest; Praise to you, Lord Jesus Christ.
People; Dying, you destroyed our death,
rising, You restored our life:
Lord Jesus, come in glory.

Priest; Let us now pray to the Father in the words Our Saviour taught us;
'Our Father, Who art in Heaven,
Hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come,
Thy Will be done,
On earth as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
And forgive us our trespasses,
As we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation,
But deliver us from evil.
For Thine is the Kingdom,
The power and the glory,
For ever and ever. Amen.'

All take part of the Eucharist. This is the Table of the Lord, so all  are welcome.
After Communion, rest in peace and prayer for a while.
Let the Lord give you His message, peace and forgiveness for today.
Prayer for all needs.
Let us pray for the father who comes before you today, Lord, bringing a heart bereft in grief. Give him healing.
  Let us remember his little child who is now within Your Arms, and let us rejoice in the fact that his little one is cherished forever in Your Kingdom.[Here add your own petitions at this Online Service of Eucharist in Praise of God the Ruler of All]


Prayer for Peace
Priest; Christ is our peace.
He has renewed our relationship with God by His action of the Cross.
We meet in fellowship in His Holy Name, and go out from this holy place of Eucharistic worship to share His Peace with all.
The peace of the Lord be with you.
Go now to love and serve God in the world.
People; Amen.
PEACE! YOU WILL MEET YOUR CHILD ONCE MORE IN HEAVEN.

Prayer to the Immaculate Heart of Mary
O Most Blessed Mother, heart of love, heart of mercy, ever listening, ever caring, consoling, hear our prayer. As your children, we implore your intercession with Jesus Your Son.
Receive with understanding and compassion the petitions we place before you today, especially ...[special intention]
We are comforted in knowing your heart is ever open to those who ask for your prayers. We trust to your gentle care and intercession, those whom we love and who are sick and lonely or hurting. Help all of us, Holy Mother, to bear our burdens in his life until we may share eternal life and peace with God forever. Amen.


Hymn; My Kindness Shall Not Depart from Three

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulL7Z7B2S_0

MEMORIAL WALL
http://sacredheartofmary.org/memorial-wall
THE SHRINE OF THE HOLY INNOCENTS
http://www.innocents.com/shrine.asp

With thanks to youtube, sacredheartofmary.org and innocents.com