PRAYER CHAPEL
Dear Lord, I am here in this Chapel today because - quite simply - I am struggling.
My child was aborted, and I am struggling in many ways.
Flashbacks. I have been through deep pain and trauma during my abortion[s] , and fear my heart has been changed because of this.
I made a past choice which I now regret. Worst of all, I cannot turn back time and change the decision I made
I did not really have full knowledge at the time as to what I was doing.
I really thought it was the right decision; now - especially as I find out more about the abortion industry - I experience heartache.
Did my little one hurt during the abortion? Where is he or she now?
Will You ever forgive me for what I did?
I have anniversary memories; I remember to the day when my little baby left this earth.
I struggle with health or emotional difficulties subsequent to the abortion .
I have experienced difficulty in falling pregnant again; or I burst out crying when my live baby is placed in my arms, as I remember his or her aborted sibling.
I was terrified at the time - or did not have the support I needed - to joyously accept my pregnancy.
Now I realise that in aborting my baby, instead of being problem free; I now have new problems - a deep and everlasting regret.
I do not always feel I can share this experience with others, so at times I feel - dreadfully - alone.
I hurt so much when I see news about the abortion industry; or when I see pictures of aborted babies.
I hurt when I see someone who does not have compassion for my pain in dealing with past memories.
Please help me.
GOD'S ANSWER TO YOU
'My dearest Daughter,,
Just come into my arms and be at peace. I am your Heavenly Father, and I know all about you.
I have your little baby [babies] safely here in Heaven with me.
I have already forgiven you. What is also important is that your little baby has also forgiven you.
Indeed, your little one reaches out to me with love for you, mother who found yourself unable to cope with their presence.
Why not name your little baby [babies]?
Your baby naming ceremony and baptism of desire for your little one will be a great comfort for you; and for them.
They are safely with me in Heaven, and can both see and hear you.
They are thrilled to know that you have healed in heart to the point that you now embrace their being.
Be reassured; I will keep your baby safe for you until you come to Heaven.
You will be reunited there.
Remember; you are worthy of the title mother. Your little one will have great joy in Heaven calling you that lovely name. Be at peace.
I wish to remind you that there is the greatest joy in heaven among both Myself and the Angels at every one of my human children who sees the light and reaches full understanding.
You did not fully understand the decision you were making before.
Now you do. So let us move on together.
Look for good help, for one of my Trustworthy Shepherds, a priest or counselor - be discerning in your choice - to help you confidentially through your struggles, nightmares and flashbacks.
Pain upon looking back at past deeds can do one of two things; firstly, it can strengthen you in your new life.
Or - left unchecked - it can cripple you with remorse leading to a depression.
My Son came to show that every day is a new day; complete innocence can be reborn through My Divine Grace in your human spirit.
Your baby is not lost; only waiting for the day when you can be reunited.
Take advantage of this, and remember -
I have forgiven you. Totally. Fully.
And without reservation.
Your baby has forgiven you.
Now be gentle with yourself; forgive yourself.
And let me heal your heart, my loving daughter ...'
TO HELP YOU
'In order to help you, My dearest daughter, here is a Mass where My Divine Grace is called down.
During this Holy Service, You and I - together, in this quiet and confidential place; Father and Child; - will embrace and name your little one
We will affirm, cherish and bless him/her/them.
NAME YOUR BABY
For this lovely ceremony make a little altar. You can do this with a little table, or on the floor if you do not have a table. If you have a cloth or piece of material, place it on the table or floor.
Light a candle if you have one; otherwise just light the love in your heart.
Bless some water by dipping your fingers in the water and asking Me to bless the water with My grace. Or use holy water you have received from church.
If you have [and if you wish] place some beautiful flowers in a vase or cup on your altar.
If you wish, draw a card with your baby [babies'] new names on it.
Or buy a card with your baby's names.
Together we will affirm the life and beauty of your unborn baby.
So my dearest daughter; let's get started.
Pray like this;
'My darling little baby, I bless you with this water [make a blessing sign or just shake some holy water].
I remember you with love; may you be happy in your new life with God.
[Here touch the petals of the flowers, offering them in celebration of the beauty of your little one].
As your loving mother, I fulfil my privilege of naming you. I name you [here recite your chosen names for your little one ].
If you wish, play some lovely music in celebration of your little baby.
Then you can add,
'I place you [Name of your baby] under the protection of Father God, Blessed Mary, and Joseph the Protector of Jesus.
[Name of your baby] I look forward to the day when we will be reunited.
I love you, my little son[s]/daughter[s] with all my heart.
Never forget that your mother loves you, and looks forward to holding you in her arms one day in Heaven.
Peace be with you, my little one; and please pray for me, your mother.
Amen.'
Now that the naming ceremony is over, dearest daughter; pray to me in your own words.
Pray for the grace of healing of past memories
Ask Mary, the Beloved Mother of My Son, to pray for you. Her Immaculate Heart draws many favours from the Love of Mine.
If you wish, you can honor your baby by placing a plaque with your baby's name on a Memorial Wall.
You can keep a plaque as a remembrance of your beloved child.
Link to 'Lifting the Burden - The Memorial Wall' is at the end of the Prayer Chapel.
Also, if you wish, make a baby naming certificate for your little one.
There is also a link at the end of the Chapel.
You can have your baby's name inscribed in the 'BOOK OF LIFE' at The Church of the Holy Innocents.
A candle lights in perpetuity in memory of your baby/babies at this Church.
On the first Monday of every month, the Church's 12:15pm Mass is celebrated in honor of your child/children and for the comfort of your family.
There is also a link at the end of the Chapel 'The Shrine of the Holy Innocents'.
Also, if you wish, you can make an album in memory of your baby.
Place in it your baby naming certificate; and a photo of your baby's remembrance plaque.
Press a flower from your bouquet today at your baby's naming ceremony.
When the flower is dry, place it in your album.
Also place a picture of My Son, who understands the heart of a sorrowful mother better than anyone else can.
And dedicate your baby into My Beloved Son, Jesus' care...'
ORDER OF SERVICE FOR MOTHERS WHO REGRET THEIR ABORTION OR ABORTIONS
Service with Eucharist Good Shepherd Church
The Gathering of God's People
Priest; The Grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.
People; And also with you.
Hymn [some verses]
God is here
Dwelling in the praise of His people
God is near
Healing broken hearts with His Touch
As we gather to worship His Name
He is riding on the wings of our praise
I believe, I believe that God is here.
Are you weary heavy laden
Come and He will give you rest
It is written
It's a promise
That is what our Saviour said
And He's promised
To be right here with us
As we come together in His Name
And
God is here
Dwelling in the praise of His people
God is near
Healing broken hearts with His Touch
As we gather to worship His Name
He is riding on the wings of our praise
I believe, I believe that God is here.
Priest;
Almighty God, to Whom all hearts are open, all desires known, and from Whom no secrets are hidden; Cleanse the thoughts of our hearts by the inspiration of Your Holy Spirit, that we may perfectly love you, and worthily magnify Your Holy Name; through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Lord God, You raise Your Son
from the dead.
Lord, have mercy.
People; Lord, have mercy.
Priest; Lord Jesus, we are given the
promise of eternal life.
Christ, have mercy.
People; Christ, have mercy.
Priest; Holy Spirit, You help us in our weakness.
Lord, have mercy.
People; Lord, have mercy.
Priest; Almighty God, Who forgives all who truly repent,
Have mercy on you, pardon and deliver you from all
your sins, confirm and strengthen you in all goodness, and
keep you in eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord.
People; Amen.
The Gloria
Glory to God in the highest,
and peace to God's people on earth;.
Lord God, heavenly King,
Almighty God and Father,
We worship You, we give You thanks,
We praise You for Your Glory.
Lord Jesus Christ, only Son of the Father,
Lord God, Lamb of God,
You take away the sin of the world:
Have mercy on us.
You are seated at the Right Hand of the Father,
Receive our prayer.
For You alone are the Holy One,
You alone are the Lord,
You alone are the Most High,
Jesus Christ, with the Holy Spirit,
in the Glory of God the Father. Amen.
Priest; [Prayer]
Almighty and Everlasting God, by Whose Holy Spirit the Whole Body of the Church is ruled and made holy;
Hear our prayer which we offer for all.
We come before You asking Your Blessing on [here put your baby's name and your name ] and for Healing of Past Memories,
through our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.
People; Amen.
Priest; The Reading is from Psalm 51, verse 10
People; Glory to you, Lord Jesus Christ.
Reader; 'Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.'
People; Praise to You, Lord Jesus Christ
Words of Comfort;
'[Your name], Jesus reaches out to you with Hands that have known sorrow and suffering. There is not a road of difficulty that He did not travel while on earth.
Now He reaches out to you with one Hand, as He holds your little infant in the other.
Mary His Mother, is there to help.
Let their love, and the gentleness and compassion in Their Eyes, heal your sorrowful heart and dry the tears in your eyes.
God will never be outdone; His grace shines stronger than the greatest light.
Let His Grace and Love pour through you as you embrace your baby and look joyfully forward to the day you will meet again in the Joy of Heaven.'
Prayer
Priest; The Lord is here
People; His Spirit is with us
Priest; Lift up your hearts
People; We lift them up to the Lord.
Priest; Let us give thanks to the Lord our God
People; It is right to give our thanks and praise.
Priest; Father, Lord of Life,
Comfort [Your name] who comes before you today.
Bless [your name] and wipe her tears away.
Help her to recover from past memories.
Hold her little one in the shelter of Your Arms,
Graciously keep [Baby's name] safe until they reunite one day in Heaven,
Amen.
The Breaking of Bread
'As they were eating, Jesus took bread [here the priest takes the bread]'And blessed and broke it' [the priest breaks the bread] 'And He gave it to His disciples and said, 'Take this, all of you, and eat; This is My Body.'
People; Lord Jesus, we bless You:
You are the Bread of Life.
The Blessing of the Wine
'At the end of supper, Jesus took the cup of wine [here the priest takes up the cup] 'Gave thanks, and said; Drink this, all of you: This is my Blood of the New Covenant, Which is shed for you and for many for the forgiveness of sins: do this in remembrance of Me.'
People; Lord Jesus, we bless You:
You are the true vine.
Priest; Praise to you, Lord Jesus Christ.
People; Dying, you destroyed our death,
rising, You restored our life:
Lord Jesus, come in glory.
All now recite The Lord's Prayer [ translated from the original Aramaic];
'Our Father, Who is in Heaven,
sanctified be Your Name.
May Your Kingdom come,
may Your Will be done,
just as It is in Heaven, so also upon the earth.
Our bread which is from the earth,
give us day by day.
Forgive us our sins,
just as we should forgive our debtors,
and do not bring us to trial
rather deliver us from the evil one.'
All take part of the Eucharist. This is the Table of the Lord, so all are welcome.
After Communion, rest in peace and prayer for a while.
Let the Lord give you His message, peace and forgiveness for today.
Prayer for all needs.
Let us pray for [your name]
Let us remember [your baby's name ] and rejoice that your little one is cherished forever in God's Kingdom.
Let us pray for healing for [your name].
[Here add your own petitions at this Online Service of Eucharist in Praise of God the Ruler of All]
Prayer for Peace
Priest; Christ is our peace.
Allow His Embrace of Love and Peace to enfold you, and heal your past hurt and past memories in the blessing of His comfort.
We meet in fellowship in His Holy Name, and go out from this holy place of Eucharistic worship to share His Peace with all.
The peace of the Lord be with you;
The peace that only Jesus can bring.
Go now to love and serve God in the world; a mother reunited in spirit with her little baby.
Response; Amen.
Hymn; I Need You Lord! Meet Me Here!
I need You, Lord. I need Your Touch today ...
I need to hear Your Voice today ... for me.
You know what's in my life and in my heart and on my mind.
I need You to be near to me today.
And I made my life out to you ...
I lift my eyes up to Your Face
I laid my heart before You and all my burdens at Your Feet
Be near to me ... Hear me.
Meet me here, Oh Lord
Wipe away my tears.
Take away all my pain, all my fear ...
Let me know you're close to me ...
And let me know You hear me ...
And that you know what's in my heart of hearts ... and You care
Jesus, Jesus, Jesus
Be near to me
Let me feel Your Embrace, the Light of Your Love shining in my face,
Let me hear You say to me, You love me ...
Jesus, Jesus, Jesus
Be near to me.
PEACE!
Prayer to the Immaculate Heart of Mary
O Most Blessed Mother, heart of love, heart of mercy, ever listening, ever caring, consoling, hear our prayer. As your children, we implore your intercession with Jesus Your Son.
Receive with understanding and compassion the petitions we place before you today, especially ...[special intention]
We are comforted in knowing your heart is ever open to those who ask for your prayers. We trust to your gentle care and intercession, those whom we love and who are sick and lonely or hurting. Help all of us, Holy Mother, to bear our burdens in his life until we may share eternal life and peace with God forever. Amen.
Hymn; God is here
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Hymn; I Need Your Lord! Meet Me Here!
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MEMORIAL WALL
http://www.sacredheartofmary.org/wall/healing.html
THE SHRINE OF THE HOLY INNOCENTS
http://www.innocents.com/shrine.asp
With thanks to sacredheartofmary.org
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